Welcome to the Kansai International Airport
7/26/2005
And There Shall Be a Triumphant Return
It’s been a while. In fact, exactly two weeks since I stepped into that pressurized Northwest airplane departing from the multi-million dollar Kansai airport. Due to the magical realm created by Time Zones and International Datelines, my arrival in America actually preceded my departure in Japan by almost a full hour, following a twelve hour flight through wispy clouds and timeless sunrises. You would think, what with all the quiet hours of observation provided to me in Japan, that I had become a better observer and analyzer of everyday life. I wanted these two weeks since my departure to represent a time for decent observation into what Japan meant and changed in me. Even still, I realize that my year in Japan cannot be fully comprehended and digested in a measly fortnight, and I would be grateful to ever truly understand Japan as a country. I can produce curt sound clips on street corners to friends I have not met in a full year, but those cursory explanations can’t begin to encompass the experiences, friends, and sense of maturation I found in Japan. Which leads me to wonder, when I realize that…
I have a hard time identifying any specific changes in myself.
To tell the truth, my friends say that I haven’t changed aside from longer sideburns and a slight British accent. I didn’t know quite what to expect from the long awaited reunion with my parents at the airport, but my homecoming was surprising commonplace. Heartwarming, to say the least, and certainly not mundane, but to where, exactly, did that year in Japan disappear? Where are the exchange kids that gain 30 pounds, grow a beard, and have to introduce themselves to their parents at the airport? There was no uncontrollable sobbing, no cries of relief, just warm smiles all around from two people I love. It felt as if I had only left for a week. As far as I can see, the only perceptible change is that of my sleepy Morgantown, whose population jumped after the addition of 20,000 college students in the most recent census (qualifying this town as a city, and gaining four Starbucks locations since I left in August).
I could make a small list of the ways that America has both shocked and awed me following my return to the country, but my recent trip with Rahul (friend and fellow exchange student living in Fukuoka, Japan) to visit his host sister Shizuka (whom he never met) in West Lafayette, Ohio, put some excellent closure on both our experiences in Japan over the last year (Rahul and Shizuka were actually Rotary Exchange partners, Shizuka came to America while Rahul stayed with her family in Fukuoka).
West Lafayette, a “good ‘ol town” with a population topping off at around 2,000, must have been a strikingly different Rotary exchange from what Rahul and I found in Japan. As the two of us rolled up, to Shizuka’s house on the astonishingly broad streets of Coshocton, I couldn’t help but be shocked by the pure, almost palpable American ambiance. You could already smell the BBQs cookin’, past fields of corn stretching toward the unadulterated horizon.
After meeting Shizuka’s first host father (who unlike Japanese men was not working dawn to dusk) fixing his Chevy truck (and not a super small Toyota) in front of his wide lawn (not a miniscule driveway leading to a narrow road), he directed us to the house next door where Shizuka and her friend were preparing for the town’s Homecoming festival. I was excited to be able to speak Japanese with Shizuka, and I’m sure she was anxious for some Japanese flavor before she departs this week for Japan (even though she says she does not want to return home).
The streets of West Lafayette are lined with American flags, porches draped with flowers, and the ever-present bunting. The town has four police officers and two patrol cars, which means that any more than three simultaneous robberies are a guaranteed success. I could relate the whole story of West Lafayette to you in great detail (which would also be a quite interesting read), but a bulleted list will suffice:
Shizuka, her friend Laura, host mother (an older widow who was the most outgoing woman I have ever met) Rahul, and I ate dinner in a town called Baltic, at a restaurant run by the Ohio Amish and serving the most delicious fried chicken west of the Pecos. During the meal we talked of India (Shizuka’s host mother is very well traveled), the drama club at West Lafayette High School, and lemon meringue pie.
On the ride back from the restaurant, and while eating licorice sticks bought from the Baltic Country Store, we passed a group of Amish people in lawn chairs on an open trailer being pulled by a farm tractor, headed to the Homecoming festivities, no doubt.
At the Homecoming festival, there was a show stopping performance by Melvis, an Elvis impersonator with the given name Melvin, who was flanked by a troupe of cloggers wearing sparkly silver jackets. Simply amazing.
I purchased dragon tattoos for $1 from very shady Circus folk.
Aside from having our collective minds blown by West Lafayette, Rahul and I blew most everyone’s mind by being semi-ethnically diverse in an area where demographics can be followed as the rule. Shizuka said she didn’t feel too conspicuous, and appeared very happy in her little county of Coshocton. Strange to say, but this trip to Ohio made me glad to be back in the United States, and even happier that Morgantown is the place that it is. It’s great to be able to communicate and express myself again in English (with an occasional added flare of Japanese) to anyone and everyone I meet.
On the way back to Morgantown, Rahul and I stopped at an ice cream shop and could barely finish half of the smallest cones on the menu.
All jokes aside,
Great to be home.
I have a hard time identifying any specific changes in myself.
To tell the truth, my friends say that I haven’t changed aside from longer sideburns and a slight British accent. I didn’t know quite what to expect from the long awaited reunion with my parents at the airport, but my homecoming was surprising commonplace. Heartwarming, to say the least, and certainly not mundane, but to where, exactly, did that year in Japan disappear? Where are the exchange kids that gain 30 pounds, grow a beard, and have to introduce themselves to their parents at the airport? There was no uncontrollable sobbing, no cries of relief, just warm smiles all around from two people I love. It felt as if I had only left for a week. As far as I can see, the only perceptible change is that of my sleepy Morgantown, whose population jumped after the addition of 20,000 college students in the most recent census (qualifying this town as a city, and gaining four Starbucks locations since I left in August).
I could make a small list of the ways that America has both shocked and awed me following my return to the country, but my recent trip with Rahul (friend and fellow exchange student living in Fukuoka, Japan) to visit his host sister Shizuka (whom he never met) in West Lafayette, Ohio, put some excellent closure on both our experiences in Japan over the last year (Rahul and Shizuka were actually Rotary Exchange partners, Shizuka came to America while Rahul stayed with her family in Fukuoka).
West Lafayette, a “good ‘ol town” with a population topping off at around 2,000, must have been a strikingly different Rotary exchange from what Rahul and I found in Japan. As the two of us rolled up, to Shizuka’s house on the astonishingly broad streets of Coshocton, I couldn’t help but be shocked by the pure, almost palpable American ambiance. You could already smell the BBQs cookin’, past fields of corn stretching toward the unadulterated horizon.
After meeting Shizuka’s first host father (who unlike Japanese men was not working dawn to dusk) fixing his Chevy truck (and not a super small Toyota) in front of his wide lawn (not a miniscule driveway leading to a narrow road), he directed us to the house next door where Shizuka and her friend were preparing for the town’s Homecoming festival. I was excited to be able to speak Japanese with Shizuka, and I’m sure she was anxious for some Japanese flavor before she departs this week for Japan (even though she says she does not want to return home).
The streets of West Lafayette are lined with American flags, porches draped with flowers, and the ever-present bunting. The town has four police officers and two patrol cars, which means that any more than three simultaneous robberies are a guaranteed success. I could relate the whole story of West Lafayette to you in great detail (which would also be a quite interesting read), but a bulleted list will suffice:
Shizuka, her friend Laura, host mother (an older widow who was the most outgoing woman I have ever met) Rahul, and I ate dinner in a town called Baltic, at a restaurant run by the Ohio Amish and serving the most delicious fried chicken west of the Pecos. During the meal we talked of India (Shizuka’s host mother is very well traveled), the drama club at West Lafayette High School, and lemon meringue pie.
On the ride back from the restaurant, and while eating licorice sticks bought from the Baltic Country Store, we passed a group of Amish people in lawn chairs on an open trailer being pulled by a farm tractor, headed to the Homecoming festivities, no doubt.
At the Homecoming festival, there was a show stopping performance by Melvis, an Elvis impersonator with the given name Melvin, who was flanked by a troupe of cloggers wearing sparkly silver jackets. Simply amazing.
I purchased dragon tattoos for $1 from very shady Circus folk.
Aside from having our collective minds blown by West Lafayette, Rahul and I blew most everyone’s mind by being semi-ethnically diverse in an area where demographics can be followed as the rule. Shizuka said she didn’t feel too conspicuous, and appeared very happy in her little county of Coshocton. Strange to say, but this trip to Ohio made me glad to be back in the United States, and even happier that Morgantown is the place that it is. It’s great to be able to communicate and express myself again in English (with an occasional added flare of Japanese) to anyone and everyone I meet.
On the way back to Morgantown, Rahul and I stopped at an ice cream shop and could barely finish half of the smallest cones on the menu.
All jokes aside,
Great to be home.
7/10/2005
After waiting most of a year, I finally captured a picture of my favorite building in Okayama (on the left side of the photo)
In the middle of Takahashi High School is a small pond. The school itself resides inside of a National Park
This is called the "Yankee Squat," for reasons really unknown to me (Japanese people often sit like this to rest, and Yankee means a derelect person in Japanese), but I think its a funny moniker either way
The End of an Era
The last few days have been an exercise in “mad-dash Japanese cultural experiences,” which have flown by at breakneck speeds. What happened to my final few lazy weeks in Japan? While I can’t quite recall everything that has occurred in my quest to successfully pack and exit Japan in a proper manner, I’ll try to briefly list some of the highlights:
Frequenting an onsen with Neil and my host mother where sand was shoveled all over our bodies for therapeutic reasons. Recorded great footage of exiting our sandy graves, like proper creatures of the night.
My last day of school was thrilling, almost better than some of the first. Everyone was very eager to talk regardless of how well they actually knew me, and most showered me with requests for cell-phone pictures in outrageous poses. There was a party during the last period, and two kids performed a fully choreographed fight scene in tribute to my time spent at Tamano High School.
The next day some choice friends of mine came to the house (along with Jez and Neil) for a final farewell party with my parents and host sister. My host mom prepared a huge array of succulent foods which were quickly devoured by the crowd of hungry hungry high school students. Jez pulled out a guitar and hosted a small jam session along with Nakkan, which eventually led into full karaoke versions of such eclectic favorites as “Lose Yourself,” by Eminem, “Hanna,” by Orange Range, “We Are the World,” by Michael Jackson, “Country Roads,” by John Denver, and a completely improvised satire by Jez and Neil. In true form, after all my friends left Jez, Neil, and I rode bikes to the Konbini to buy copious amounts of drink, explosive fireworks, and other unmentionables. Mahjong ensued.
Friday morning I took a trip to Takahashi High School to meet Sakaguchi-sensei, perhaps my favorite teacher from Tamano High School (he moved to Takahashi at the beginning of this school year). Sakaguchi-sensei was my former Kendo teacher, and speaks the most fluent English of any Japanese person I have met in Japan. He gave me a tour of the school (which happened to be having its seasonal festival that day) and then we talked about life in Japan before I took a train into Okayama for my final Japanese lesson.
I awoke early on Saturday for a trip to Osaka with Miyu, Shun, and Shoko. Shoko had purchased tickets to see Cirque du Soleil’s “Allegria” shortly after I arrived in Japan, and offered me a ticket. I’d seen Cirque on TV before, but the actual performance was perhaps, I’m almost sad to say, the most amazing and breathtaking thing I have had the good fortune to experience in Japan. It was simply stellar. I’ve seen circuses before, but never anything that even approaches the level of captivation and skill inherent in the performance of Allegria. After the show I met Kayo, last year’s exchange student to Canada (now living in Osaka), and we went to dinner with Hiroko and her mother, friends of Shoko living in Kobe. The dinner was delicious, which is to be expected whenever I travel anywhere with Shoko, and we took Purikura photos following the meal.
In the evening, I finally got the chance to attend a party in Okayama city (my first of the exchange) at a place called Club Jam, which was hosting a Farewell shindig for Okayama JETs. A-JET, which I can only assume is an elite group of regular JETs, rented the club for the evening and provided their own music. When I arrived at the club I met a few surprising people. As usual, most of the Okayama JETs were in attendance, but my hairdressers from PANIC surprised me by showing up, along with a nurse I met at the hospital when I sprained my ankle. There was mingling and madness until about 3 AM when I got the rare chance to DJ the remaining music until the club closed at 5. Some people had already gone home, but a good amount stayed while I played an hour and a half DJ set from a handful of cd’s and my iPod, which I now realize is one of the most convenient appliances I own. It was pretty damn cool to DJ the club, if only for the extensive power trip connected with pumping your favorite tunes into the ears of a crowd of people, and seeing them actually enjoy it.
Neil, Jez, and I had a bowl of beef and rice at Yoshinoya, the 24 hour beef and rice bowl restaurant, and then took the train back to Tamano (where we met John, asleep on a bench in the station, hobo style). Awesome evening, or perhaps, awesome “earlier this morning.” So far my day has been spent on final packing preparations, and canceling my cell phone service. Tonight is a family get-together with mom, dad, grandmother, host sisters, and Ryo, the resident boyfriend.
By this time tomorrow I’ll be somewhere over the Pacific. Strange to see a year go by in such a documented fashion. One last day, a final chalk mark on the proverbial wall. What a trip.
Frequenting an onsen with Neil and my host mother where sand was shoveled all over our bodies for therapeutic reasons. Recorded great footage of exiting our sandy graves, like proper creatures of the night.
My last day of school was thrilling, almost better than some of the first. Everyone was very eager to talk regardless of how well they actually knew me, and most showered me with requests for cell-phone pictures in outrageous poses. There was a party during the last period, and two kids performed a fully choreographed fight scene in tribute to my time spent at Tamano High School.
The next day some choice friends of mine came to the house (along with Jez and Neil) for a final farewell party with my parents and host sister. My host mom prepared a huge array of succulent foods which were quickly devoured by the crowd of hungry hungry high school students. Jez pulled out a guitar and hosted a small jam session along with Nakkan, which eventually led into full karaoke versions of such eclectic favorites as “Lose Yourself,” by Eminem, “Hanna,” by Orange Range, “We Are the World,” by Michael Jackson, “Country Roads,” by John Denver, and a completely improvised satire by Jez and Neil. In true form, after all my friends left Jez, Neil, and I rode bikes to the Konbini to buy copious amounts of drink, explosive fireworks, and other unmentionables. Mahjong ensued.
Friday morning I took a trip to Takahashi High School to meet Sakaguchi-sensei, perhaps my favorite teacher from Tamano High School (he moved to Takahashi at the beginning of this school year). Sakaguchi-sensei was my former Kendo teacher, and speaks the most fluent English of any Japanese person I have met in Japan. He gave me a tour of the school (which happened to be having its seasonal festival that day) and then we talked about life in Japan before I took a train into Okayama for my final Japanese lesson.
I awoke early on Saturday for a trip to Osaka with Miyu, Shun, and Shoko. Shoko had purchased tickets to see Cirque du Soleil’s “Allegria” shortly after I arrived in Japan, and offered me a ticket. I’d seen Cirque on TV before, but the actual performance was perhaps, I’m almost sad to say, the most amazing and breathtaking thing I have had the good fortune to experience in Japan. It was simply stellar. I’ve seen circuses before, but never anything that even approaches the level of captivation and skill inherent in the performance of Allegria. After the show I met Kayo, last year’s exchange student to Canada (now living in Osaka), and we went to dinner with Hiroko and her mother, friends of Shoko living in Kobe. The dinner was delicious, which is to be expected whenever I travel anywhere with Shoko, and we took Purikura photos following the meal.
In the evening, I finally got the chance to attend a party in Okayama city (my first of the exchange) at a place called Club Jam, which was hosting a Farewell shindig for Okayama JETs. A-JET, which I can only assume is an elite group of regular JETs, rented the club for the evening and provided their own music. When I arrived at the club I met a few surprising people. As usual, most of the Okayama JETs were in attendance, but my hairdressers from PANIC surprised me by showing up, along with a nurse I met at the hospital when I sprained my ankle. There was mingling and madness until about 3 AM when I got the rare chance to DJ the remaining music until the club closed at 5. Some people had already gone home, but a good amount stayed while I played an hour and a half DJ set from a handful of cd’s and my iPod, which I now realize is one of the most convenient appliances I own. It was pretty damn cool to DJ the club, if only for the extensive power trip connected with pumping your favorite tunes into the ears of a crowd of people, and seeing them actually enjoy it.
Neil, Jez, and I had a bowl of beef and rice at Yoshinoya, the 24 hour beef and rice bowl restaurant, and then took the train back to Tamano (where we met John, asleep on a bench in the station, hobo style). Awesome evening, or perhaps, awesome “earlier this morning.” So far my day has been spent on final packing preparations, and canceling my cell phone service. Tonight is a family get-together with mom, dad, grandmother, host sisters, and Ryo, the resident boyfriend.
By this time tomorrow I’ll be somewhere over the Pacific. Strange to see a year go by in such a documented fashion. One last day, a final chalk mark on the proverbial wall. What a trip.
7/08/2005
School rumbles, house parties, and trips to Osaka are how this Rotary exchange student finishes out his year. Stay tuned for the gripping end to his crazy story, with guitar accompaniment where available...
7/05/2005
This was where I exited the station on Friday after taking the train out of the city. Nothing but miles of rice, mountains, and sky
